Sharing is one of the most noble values in life. For men, setting aside money to share can be an effective way to contribute to society and help those in need. However, financial challenges and personal commitments can often make it difficult to set aside money to share. Here are some ways that men can apply to set aside money to share, whether it is for charity, helping friends, or supporting social projects.
Create a Budget Plan
The first step to setting aside money is to create a budget plan. By having a clear budget, we can better see where our money is going and where we can cut back on spending. Here are the steps you can take:
Record Monthly Expenses: Write down all monthly expenses, from fixed bills such as electricity, water, rent, to variable expenses such as food and entertainment.
Identify Waste: After taking notes, figure out where you can cut back. For example, cutting back on eating out or subscribing to services you don’t really need.
Allocate Funds for Sharing: Once you have identified areas for savings, allocate a portion of your set aside money for sharing. Decide on a certain percentage of your monthly income to be allocated to sharing activities.

Determine the Purpose of Sharing
Setting a goal for sharing can help motivate us to set aside money. Before you start setting aside, consider the following:
Type of Sharing Activity: Do you want to donate to an orphanage, educational institution, or maybe help a friend in need? Setting a goal will help you focus more.
Amount to Donate: Decide how much money you want to contribute. This can be a fixed amount each month or a percentage of your income.
The Right Time to Share: Do you want to share every month, or are there special moments like holidays or celebrations that are more meaningful for sharing?
Take Advantage of Technology
Nowadays, there are many apps and platforms that can help you set aside money for sharing. Some of them are:
Financial Management Apps: Use apps to track expenses and see how much you can set aside for sharing.
Online Donation Platforms: Platforms like Kitabisa or GoFundMe allow you to easily donate to those in need. You can choose a campaign that suits your giving goals.
Start with Small Amounts
Many people think that in order to share, they have to donate a large amount. In fact, sharing does not always have to be in large amounts. You can start with a small amount and gradually increase your contribution as your financial ability increases. Here are some strategies:
Small Monthly Contribution: For example, allocate IDR 50,000 every month. Although it seems small, if done consistently, the amount will increase over time.
Donations on Special Days: You can choose to donate on special days in your life, such as birthdays or holidays, with a more significant amount.
Make Sharing a Habit
Like any other good habit, sharing should be made a routine. By making it a habit, it will be easier for you to do it. Here are some ways to make it a habit:
Choose a Special Day to Donate: For example, the first of every month is the day you donate to a charity. This way, giving becomes part of your routine.
Involve Family and Friends: Invite family or friends to participate in sharing activities. By involving others, you not only strengthen relationships, but also create a culture of sharing around you.
Find Inspiration from Others
Getting inspired by others who are also active in sharing can be a powerful motivation for you. Here are some ways to find inspiration:Follow Positive Social Media: There are many accounts on social media that focus on charity and giving. By following them, you will get ideas and motivation.Join a Community: Find a community that shares the same vision about giving. You can learn from their experiences and even collaborate on giving projects.
Monitor and Evaluate
Once you start setting aside money for giving, it’s important to monitor and evaluate your progress. This helps you see the impact of your contributions and adjust your strategy if necessary. Track Your Donations: Keep a record of how much you’ve donated and to whom. This will help you evaluate the effectiveness of your donations. Monthly Reflection: Take time each month to reflect on your giving experience. Did it make you happy? Was there a better way to do this? This reflection will help keep the spirit of giving alive.
Stay Flexible and Open
Sometimes plans can change. You may face unexpected situations that affect your finances. Therefore, it is important to remain flexible and open to change.
Prepare an Emergency Fund: Even if you set aside money for sharing, it is important to still have an emergency fund. This will give you the comfort that you can still meet your needs if an emergency arises.
Be Open to New Opportunities: Sometimes, opportunities to give come up outside of your plans. If you get a chance to help someone or contribute to an important cause, don't hesitate to do so.
Conclusion
Setting aside money to share is a noble step and can be implemented by anyone. By making a budget plan, setting goals, utilizing technology, starting with a small amount, and making it a habit, men can more easily set aside money to share. The most important thing is the intention and consistency in doing so. Every contribution, no matter how small, has an impact. So, let's start sharing and be part of a positive change in society.